Rejection

Mark Grant • October 9, 2026

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Rejection

Simply stated, to reject something is to refuse or disown it. I would venture to say that all of us have experienced rejection and the cruel sting it carries. Rejection can come from different places and at different levels. We can be rejected by a job opportunity or a sports team, or we can be rejected by someone we love. Each rejection brings its own level of sadness, disappointment or pain.

I recently read the book of Joshua, where the tribes of Reuben, Gad and part of Manasseh chose to settle not in the Promised Land but instead had asked to settle on the eastern side of the Jordan river. A review of Scripture reveals that this request was not to the Lord, but to Moses. (Numbers 32: 1-5). While we read in that same chapter that it was Moses who granted this request (32:20, 28, 29, 33, 40), it is what these tribes say in verse 19 that impacts me most: “For we will not have an inheritance with them (the other tribes) on the other side of the Jordan and beyond, because our inheritance has fallen to us on this side of the Jordan toward the east.”  To understand this, let’s go back to verse one of chapter 32, speaking of the sons of Reuben and the sons of Gad: “So when they saw the land of Jazer and the land of Gilead…”.  The root of their request is rejection. They rejected the inheritance that God promised and prepared for them, based simply on what they saw with their own eyes. Does this sound familiar? Let’s go back to the beginning, to the book of Genesis. In chapter 2, God gives to Adam and Eve freedom to eat from any tree in the Garden except the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Gen 2: 15-17). In chapter 3, we know that Satan deceives Eve to eat the fruit from that particular tree. Verse 6 states “When the woman saw that the tree was good for food and that it was a delight to the eyes…”.  Eve saw with her eyes and rejected all that God had given her, to take that which He had not given to her. The tribes of Reuben and Gad did likewise. They each rejected God by rejecting His promise and His gift for that which was a delight to their own eyes. It may seem harsh to say that the tribes rejected God, but by refusing the gift of the Promised Land, they were saying that their choice of land was better than His choice for them. Scripture reveals that God’s people consistently rejected Him through sin and disobedience. We see in 1 Samuel 8 that the Israelites desire a human king to rule over them, not God. God says to Samuel in verse seven that “they have rejected Me from being king over them.”  

The rejection of God continues into the New Testament, as we see Jesus being rejected by the very people He came to save. In Matthew 21:42, Jesus repeats the prophecy of Himself from Psalm 118:22 “The stone the builder’s rejected, has become the Chief Cornerstone…”  In addition, Jesus prophecies of His rejection in Luke 17:25. I think the most significant rejection of Christ is when Pilate proposes to release Jesus according to custom, and the people instead choose Barabbas while the chief priests exclaim “We have no king but Caeser.” (John 19:15). In chapter one of Romans, Paul writes that people “exchanged (rejected) the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.”

What about today? Can we say that we differ from those in the Bible? Do we not at times reject His promises to settle for what looks good to our eyes? Do we proclaim Christ as our King, yet place others (or ourselves) on the throne of our life? Do we exchange His glory for the glory of created things? Though we know the pain and hurt of rejection, we often reject the One who will never leave or forsake us. The Creator of all, the Infinite One, full of love, grace and truth, is still being rejected by His creation. And yet, He still loves. He still restores. He still redeems. If, like the prodigal son, you’ve rejected the love of the Father to pursue that which is pleasing in your own eyes, come running back to Jesus! His arms are opened wide for you as He waits for your return!  

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